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A rhinestone encrusted Elvis stop.

I wouldn't say I'm an Elvis fan, I didn't even think I knew many songs until I got to Memphis and our Graceland campground where Elvis FM was pumped throughout the speaker system and they got ingrained in my brain. I had arrived in Memphis, Tennessee eager to see some great music and historical sites and the first stop was of course the greatest pop culture home in history, the home of the King, Graceland.

Despite the time lapse and new generations of music icons, Graceland is evidently as popular as ever. We arrived ten minutes after opening time and got on the 7th tour already for the morning. I joined the large line that had already formed and went through the obligatory pre-entry photo stop. For only $45 you can pick up the print of that delightful snap of you looking like an idiot in front of a badly painted mural of the gates of Graceland. Hey Elvis fans, do you know what would be a better souvenir photo? A photo outside the actual gates!

Then I stood in the shuttle bus line and waited to be taken to Graceland itself. I was only in Elvis purgatory - the land of souvenir shops and 50s diners. Now I'm not exactly a fan, it was more a bucket list thing and I was far more interested in getting into Memphis itself, so I watched the clock tick by as I waited in line. I searched the queue for Elvis fans, hoping to see a look-alike or at least someone wearing an Elvis hat to entertain me while Graceland stole precious vacation minutes from me.
The line was slow moving as small mini buses came by at intervals to take away only 15 or so passengers each time. I was getting impatient. As I neared the front of the line I realised the road was just in front of us and there was a large property obscured by trees just opposite.

Elvis lived across the road from where we were standing.

His gates were some 25 metres away.

We were lining up to get a bus to take us what was possibly 50 metres, at a stretch. Across the road, in the gates and up a drive way.

Well, this is America.

Maybe it’s a long driveway I thought?… nope, the shuttle took 15 seconds. With no chance of getting any of those 45 minutes of queuing up life-minutes back I will just say, they could probably divert some of the funds from the high entrance fees to the construction of a walkway over the road and save everyone the hassle. They could add some pictures and perhaps a chronological timeline of events to jazz it up.

Within sheer seconds I was standing outside a modest, but large white home with a pillared front. Maybe something a wealthy businessman or family would own, certainly not a patch on what today’s superstars have, whole city blocks and a wing of the house for their dogs.
It is entirely as it stood when Elvis lived there, but with the addition of 100 slow-walking idiots wearing head sets milling about his personal belongings. It’s very 70s and more like a time warp of 70s design than anything grand and expensive; sleek lines, shag pile rugs, Venetian glass and white leather. Lots of orange and brown and yellow with a dash of cobalt blue every now and then.

While 20 slow moving, vacationing couples from Florida crowded the lobby trying to work their audio guides I pushed my way through the house.

The front room was where the business was conducted, a few family portraits, a piano, a couch and some odd retro furnishings.

His parents room has a bed in it to be expected and that was all there is to say on that.

Not being a super fan worked in my favour, I had no real desire to really scrutinise where he sat and where he kept his teacups. I was making good time, the audio guide couldn't keep up with me. I went back through the lobby, back passed the same vacationing couples who were speaking to each other over their headsets wondering how to skip it back to the start because they've missed a bit.

The main staircase was roped off. You cannot go upstairs at all, so you don’t even get to see where Elvis lived, you get to see where he hung out and watched TV. It is blocked off for privacy. That must be in the fine print. Really though, if you are going let people walk everywhere else, why leave a room private? Out of everything I would actually be curious what was on his bedside table and to look in his underwear drawer or see what kind of shampoo he used, instead it's, "this is where he probably talked on the phone".

I went through another lounge room and in to the kitchen. It was like a regular 70s house. I was waiting for more tacky splashes of grandeur and there wasn't any. I was speeding along the one way trail through the house waiting to see something that made this house different to half the old people’s houses I deliver medication to in my day job. I was waiting to have to look through some old bowling medals or newspaper cut outs like the oldies show me. The most extravagant and it seems the crowd favourite was the jungle room, it had green shag carpet and ceilings and all the furniture was made from tree-like unshapen wood. It was hideously cool. I will give him that.

Downstairs, along a mirror lined staircase (a bit of the flashiness I was expecting) was a TV room with three screens which is probably what I would have spent my money on too. Decorated in yellow and blue it appears it was cutting edge design at the time. His personal logo emblazoned on the wall, TCB, Taking Care of Business. Off to the other side of the stairs is a pool room that is one large curtain that everything blends in to, a camouflage of 70s colours and patterns. Like someone ate the 70s and regurgitated it on a wall; splashes of orange, brown, paisley, tassels, velvet, a matching carpet and couch.

Then it was back upstairs and out the back door.

Nothing flash at all. Where is his gold plated toilet seat? Or indoor bowling lane or room full of segways? This guy did not know how to waste his fortunes.

And to make it worse, there was also a severe lack of Elvis nuts around. My only satisfaction was a Elvis t-shirt clad lady on a mobility scooter zipping through the entrance foyer then doing a 12-point turn outside Elvis’ parents room while screeching about upstairs still being closed off.
"I agree, total bullshit", I wanted to say and hope she gave me a high five.

The rest of the Graceland property is add-ons, mostly rooms of trophies, gold records, posters and costumes etc. He did have his own racquet ball room which was pretty bad ass at the time I'm sure. Racquetball has lost a lot of its badass finesse now. He had a pool, just the size of a standard backyard pool but with a small diving board. A few horses down the back. The place certainly lacked the tacky expenditure of today, perhaps a stable and some ponies was super extravagant at the time? His memorial is in a small garden near the pool. The gravestones of his mother, father, grandmother and himself and a plaque honouring his brother.

Elvis came from a poor background, made a lot of money and although young was really quite disappointingly responsible with his fortune. He looked after his parents. He liked motorcycles and cool cars, like his ace pink Cadillac, and had a plane or two but I guess in our day and age we are used to seeing celebrity ridiculous tenfold. People probably thought he was one crazy cat but a room with three TVs now is like 'meh', where is your crack den Elvis? Where is your pool full of drunk bikini-clad whores? Where is your champagne fountain? Though I'm sure he spent a significant amount of money on rhinestones and glitter which is probably the equivalent today of some pimpin’ bling.

I did discover he had a fleet of golf carts and all his mates would cruise around on them and even take them out on the road so that gave him a little more street cred.

Given I live in a time when pop stars shave their heads, are twerking with foam fingers, wearing dresses made of meat to awards shows and are generally being all but committed by 20 years old, it all seems petty tame. Elvis thought a rhinestone jumpsuit was a bit off the hook. So by 21st century standards everything about Elvis and Graceland was all very normal and tasteful with a funky 70s flair. Maybe all the cool junk is upstairs hiding? Didn't he die on the toilet, they need to highlight that more.
Scandal is the only way to sell tickets these days.

There was no one doing their annual Elvis pilgrimage that I could tell, no impersonators, no one weeping opening at his grave or trying to steal his underwear, it was mostly white middle-aged couples paying their respects to a legend. He is still incredibly well loved and clearly hundreds of people see his home every day and all the other exhibits on his film and music career, eat in the nostalgia retro 50s diners and buy rhinestone encrusted pink Elvis t-shirts from the gift shops. His music plays everywhere, like its on a loop throughout the entire region, and videos play in every room.
I do wonder if we will ever have someone of his magnitude again, someone that people will genuinely care about many, many years after they have died. We hate our popstars within a few years, many of them will die in relative obscurity or tragically from an overdose or will retire and sell used cars and talk of the yesteryear. Even the ones who were never even that famous are suddenly on YouTube drunkenly eating a hamburger and still claiming to have single handedly torn town the Berlin Wall. They are all batshit crazy. In 50 years will we be wandering through Lady Gaga’s house and saying, “hmmm, not an overly glamorous mansion” or “a dress made of meat? Please that is so lame” oh and "look, how dumb she has her own McDonalds (that may have been Richie Rich)”

Elvis Presley did die young and tragically like a true pop star but there was only one mention of his passing at 42 from heart problems. I can only assume it’s because to most of these people off the highway outside Memphis, Tennessee, Elvis still lives.


Posted by The Tipsy Gipsy 03:22 Archived in USA Tagged usa tennessee elvis pilgrimage graceland memphis 2013 the_tipsy_gipsy Comments (0)

Little Corn House on the Prairie

The Roadside Attractions of South Dakota.

I'm a real sucker for roadside attractions and veering out of the way for the ridiculousness is something I deem necessary to every good holiday. It is also why I could never road trip across the USA on my own, I would never get anywhere, and probably run off the road reading the abundance of billboards that line the highways.

I was heading west from Chicago towards San Francisco, venturing from dairy country in to corn country and in to cowboy country, across the great mid-west prairies and past the little houses on them. Alluring signs grabbed my attention left and right - prairie dog farms, butterfly houses, safari parks, real-sized dinosaur parks, haunted hotels and the like, all off the highway, all in the middle of absolutely nowhere.

The town of Marshall, South Dakota decided it would put itself on the map in the most logical way possible, build a giant palace out of corn. In the late 19th century everyone had already realised Marshall was a hell-hole and no one was particularly keen on calling it home, so the residents decided what was needed to attract people was not flashy houses or good jobs, it was a giant structure built of corn. In many ways they were on the money, someone, in all probability drunk, suggested this idea and instead of ridicule, he was met with positive feedback by the entire corn growing (perhaps also drunken) community. A Corn Palace? Nailed it!
So they got off to work on the palace. People were not only going to come flooding in and be astounded by the great display of local artistry but it was also going to be a showcase of just how much corn can be grown in the area. And if there is enough corn left to build stuff, there’s too much corn, in other words if you read between the lines, "Marshall is super fertile y'all need to grab your hoes".

It was also a stellar idea because people really do dig things built out of corn. It became a star attraction, a veritable sensation and people would come every year and the town would come alive with corn celebration, parades and celebrities, it was a very big deal. Each year there was a new design unveiled and everyone was quite frankly amaized at what could do with some husks and cobs.
That’s how it all started and the Corn Palace still stands in Marshall to this day. In many ways much of the grandeur of an annual event of corn design has perhaps worn off what with people having access to TV and the internet for entertainment nowadays, but each year the palace is redesigned in new folk art designs and patterns made of different corn varieties and husks. The artistry is still as equally impressive 100 years later. It still attracts millions of visitors because there’s not much happening on the lonely stretch through South Dakota and also because you get to visit a town and a building that just loves corn, a lot, a whole lot, which is amusing enough to warrant a stop.

The palace now, though decorated with corn still, is more a local community centre. There is a corn museum, lots of photos on the history of both corn growing and the palace designs over time. There's a free screening on it history playing on a loop and regular guided tours for a more hands on Corn Palace experience. You can pick up some corn related souvenirs like ‘I got Husked at the Corn Palace’ – hahah I don’t get it… and popcorn snacks from the kiosk but it also serves as an auditorium, concert venue and an award winning junior basketball stadium. Yes, the actual winner of best school basketball court in the area, is inside a palace made of corn.
You are welcome world.

The next stop along the super nutty Prairies was Wall Drug, an absolute institution for reasons we will never know. The billboards start several hundred miles away and cars sport the ‘Where the Hell is Wall Drug” bumper stickers for miles.
Wall Drug is a product of the time in US history where people thought it would be a swell idea to up and move to the middle of nowhere. A time before Google Earth could show you there was nothing there but corn fields and you should stay put. Wall Drug is a tale of one such family who decided Wall, South Dakota was precisely the change of pace they needed. Perhaps they had heard of the corn palace? They upped and moved to the middle of nowhere. They took over the local drug store and sat at the counter for years waiting for a customer. Obviously, there are no customers, so they were getting down, questioning their life choices, probably wishing he had given up the pharmaceutical dreams and become a corn farmer. Perhaps on the brink of putting their children in the poor house. Life was suitably grim. But that was all about to change.
It was a hot day when genius struck. They put up a sign on the main road offering free ice water. What! Genius! I know! Now today that wouldn't even warrant slowing down yet alone stopping, but then it did. This was a time of very little excitement. Suddenly business was booming. Build it and they will come. It brought in cheapskates of biblical proportions. And Wall Drug was born.
Obviously over time the natural progression was from small, family-owned drug store flogging you a milkshake and a packet of paracetamol or medicinal tonic with your free water to a "cowboy themed shopping centre". A mega complex full of shitty souvenir shops, cowboy memorabilia, a diner and a large Jackaloupe you can sit on AND free water. Oh, and a dinosaur for good measure. Wall Drug is essentially what the inside of a 5-year old’s brain would look like. "And then put in a water feature you can play in. Do we have enough of those face photo opportunities? Paint that blue. Put a dinosaur there. And a cowboy on every bench. We should also sell books and donuts..."
But again, for reasons we will never understand, this very strange - I suppose "shopping centre"? - is packed with people. There are grown idiots sitting atop a giant jackaloupe and posing for photos with their disposable Kodak's, buying bolo ties and cowboy hats, putting bumper stickers on their cars, buying their neighbours hideous keychains for watching their cat while they are on vacation, filling their drink bottles with free ice water and dead set loving every second of it.
It was a horrifyingly beautiful sight. And that is why Wall Drug is an institution.

As it was the Wild West my favourite South Dakota roadside attraction was a recreated 1880’s Wild West town sitting just off the highway behind a Shell service station. A collection of both movie sets, Dances with the Wolves primarily, and actual 1880s buildings saved from the wrecking ball were all relocated to a block of prairie land off the highway and set up like a town. The attraction was a living museum of sorts aptly called, 1880s town. It was probably started by the collector as a means of avoiding appearing on Hoarders and put it all in one place. There was buildings full of Wild West memorabilia, all dusty and all piled into rooms. A true curators nightmare. Relics of the past dusty and sitting underneath more relics from the past. I would not have been surprised if there was some genuine Indian scalps hiding in there. There was even an original hotel with the spur marks still on the staircase, the wall paper falling down and filled with Wild West treasures.

All around was the flat nothingness of the Prairies. The little town sat there like in a time warp, the only give away of the century was the neon Shell sign poking above the buildings at one end. While the great relics getting damaged and dusty were amazing, these beautiful old buildings provided the perfect backdrop to the best roadside attraction of all, wild west dress ups. For $5 you could hire a costume to explore the town in. Once we had chosen an outfit and discovered sepia function on our cameras, the greatest wild west fun was born. It was a morning of staged bank robberies, sundown shoot outs, mule rides, and recreated weird 1800s photos of dead eyes and stern stares outside the saloon.

I had created an entire back story by the time we needed to get back on the road (good natured, straight-talkin' brothel madam of the boudoir above the main saloon). Taking off my dress, boots, gloves, chocker and feathered madam headpiece and putting my normal clothes back on the was the worst part of my day. I picked up a sarsaparilla from the man running the saloon bar (i'm not even kidding how cool is that) and headed back towards the Shell and the 21st century. There is an old train parked out the front, which was perhaps purchased before the general theme of 1880s was decided on. We hit the road again but keep a keen eye out for any other great attractions South Dakota might have on offer along the way.

Just FYI, the 1880s town also had a large dinosaur just in case they were missing a corner of the market. Nothing attracts passers-by like the promise of an encounter with a life-size fibre glass reptile.


Posted by The Tipsy Gipsy 04:29 Archived in USA Tagged usa corn prairies mitchell wall_drug south_dakota the_tipsy_gipsy 1880s roadside_attractions Comments (0)

Giddy Up Yippee Ki Ey

Horse Riding in the Black Hills

As I have mentioned before, horses terrify me. Spending time in their presence is not my ideal pastime but as I was firmly in cowboy territory it was time to saddle up, and once again do something I was entirely reluctant to do, but was going to do anyway.

So I rode a horse.

*Holds for applause*

A legit horse. Four legs and everything. ..

*Holds for applause*

I was making my way across the USA and was in The Black Hills of South Dakota, the spiritual homeland of the Lakota Indians. It was textbook cowboy and Indian country so it had to be done, I was about to embark on a trail ride. Oh sorry, I hope you didn't think I was doing anything dramatic that involved being on a horse going faster than walking pace at an old folks home?

If I've learned anything from trying to conquer my animal related fears, it is that I am never the only one with somewhat irrational fears of animals. At the stables, we, the scaredycats, tentatively lined up in our dorky helmets after being sure to circle and underline the circled ‘Never’ under the experience section of our waiver.

The lady gathered us around and began to rattle off countless instructions on how to drive a horse. How to stop, turn left, right, go backwards, speed up, slow down. A surge of panic washed over my whole body, I was well and truly in over my head. I thought they drove themselves, I thought I would be tied on to something and I certainly did not have any kind of license for driving a horse. I can barely drive a car.

Us novices stood like lambs to the slaughter, huddling together for safety. Regret starting to make it feel as though my chosen horse riding kerchief was tightening around my neck. Hoping they somehow ran out of horses before they got to each of us. The cowgirl looked me up and down and assigned me Rusty, my noble steed and sure-footed beast. He was a calm, good natured ginger horse and was super in to me and walked over and was up in my grill immediately. I said a formal hello and told him to give me some space, I wasn't ready to be best friends just yet but he wanted to get up close and personal asap.

I was the first to leave the safety of the huddle. With the elegance of a hippopotamus on roller skates I climbed up onto Rusty. I was high up but I was away from all the other horses and their big, steel feet so I felt safer.

I waited while everyone else got on their horses with equal trepidation and fake confidence.

I was sitting up like a pro. Rusty was just chillin' and I was feeling good. I was in the Wild West and I was atop a horse.

I was pretty sure at this point that this time I was going to be a natural. There was something a bit more comforting about having a bunch of cowgirls and cowboys around rather than a 15-year old Guatemalan boy wearing flip flops leading me. I felt more confident I would survive. (Read about that equine encounter here).

Obviously I looked like a born horse rider/athlete/horse lover atop my noble copper steed so Rusty and I were that natural choice to lead the group. "Rusty we are nailing it already. We could just call it a day already and finish it up now" I thought.

We headed out of the stables, me behind the cowgirl, and the others following my experienced lead. I rode along in the manner of Calamity Jane, horse rider extraordinaire. The combination of a saddle, tight pants and fear-clenched stomach muscles gave me the posture of an equestrian rider. I was nailing it.

Actually Rusty rode himself, we had similar temperaments, jus’ git ‘er done.

We rode up and down and along a narrow path through the bushland of The Black Hills. I was at the front so obviously used the opportunity to ask all my horse related questions (well, questions relating to the probability of horse related deaths/injuries) A storm was coming in overhead and purple clouds gathered above. The Black Hills are beautiful rolling hills that appear black from a distance. They were given to the Lakota in a treaty during early contracts of the Indian Wars because of the spiritual connection the Indians had with the hills. The white man soon found gold within its boundaries and started infiltrating the hills at record speed, despite it being rightfully Indian land. New treaty’s over time sliced off a little more and a little more and it became a catalyst for the Indians last stand in the area, the fierce Lakota battle seeing the demise of the infamous American general, minor celebrity and general scumbag General Custer. It is a magical piece of land.

We followed in a line along the trail. When the horse in front spooked four times and I panicked expecting Rusty to bolt like on It Takes Two, but soon realised I was riding one cool horse, I pulled the reins back like the lady told me and he just stopped, looked at the horse ahead like, ‘ease up bro’ I'm walking here’.

I was doing it, I was riding a horse and I wasn't terrified.

I was in safe hands and I no longer feared for my life, well I no longer constantly feared, just when approaching hills, gravel or tripping hazards. I also was able to unclench the muscles in the area between my neck and my toes which were tense with fear. The hollow stomach ache of regret also began to ease.

After two hours my ass and legs were suitably numb and we returned to the stables. It turns out I do not have the knee strength for horse riding which is perhaps hindering my career progression as I almost fell to the ground when I got off. I was thankful to put two jelly legs on the ground, thankful to have survived and super proud of myself, I was thinking I was probably ready for full-scale riding/Olympic level show jumping.

I said good bye to Rusty, who rudely just ran off to get food but then again, I pulled my sandwich out and started eating before the others had even disembarked, so kindred souls I guess.

I did it. Conquering my fears one horse ride at a time.

I was finally a cowgirl. My several day old dream to conquer the Wild West had begun.


Posted by The Tipsy Gipsy 02:19 Archived in USA Tagged usa south_dakota sioux lakota horse_riding the_tipsy_gipsy the_black_hills Comments (0)

Soldiers in the Army of Jesus Christ

Salt Lake City

Vanilla ice cream is the perfect description of Salt Lake City; it’s good, it’s inoffensive, it’s safe but it could benefit from a little danger, a little grit, a little chocolate fudge sauce and some sprinkles.

The city is beautifully manicured, its people are attractive, clean-cut middle class Americans. Everyone who catches your eye smiles back. The girl in Starbucks greets you as you walk in the door six metres from her counter. The men are wearing freshly pressed suit pants, short-sleeved shirts with ties and neatly combed hair. The women wear neat, plain and inoffensive skirts and blouses.

At first they are unidentifiable without their name tags and their general issue black backpack, knocking on your door while you are trying to watch The Simpsons but most of these Salt Lake City residents are Mormons.

This is the home of the Mormon Church, the home of door knocking religion salesman, and sister wives.

Primary School was the only time I did religious instruction and as far as I was concerned religion was mostly about colouring in because every lesson involved a new Jesus to colour in, a sheep here and maybe a manger there. I may have converted had they not used terrible quality waxy paper entirely unproductive to getting a well-rounded colour shade. So, without a picture to colour in on the matter, I was suitably ignorant about the Church of the Latter Day Saints save a couple of memorable TV ads but I soon learnt that in a nutshell, the Book of Mormon is the dessert course in a delicious meal of biblical fun.

The Temple and its surrounding buildings take up a huge part of downtown Salt Lake City. So the first stop was the Mormon visitors centre to find out what all this hoopla is about. Inside is a wealth of information on the history of the church. There are large scale murals depicting scenes from the Book of Mormon. LDS is essentially America’s own version of Christianity so Jesus is depicted white and blonde as are his followers. There are interactive displays where you can find answers to life’s big questions like “Why does God allow suffering?” or “What does God expect from me?” (the general gist is He expects you to be baptised, behave and do what you’re told). You can listen to sermons. You can get advice on how to be a young woman in this crazy modern world from an old, white guy in a suit. You can even play a game of Elders of the Mormon Church Guess Who with the wall full of portraits of old, bearded white men in the same suit with the same smile.

After a peruse of the various murals, interactive displays and some quality time staring at a rather large statue of Jesus in a round room painted like outer space, I got a decent summary of Mormonism.

It all began when an angel appeared to a man and told him to grab a shovel and start digging because the third book of the bible was buried in his backyard. He found the book and probably squealed with glee, “There’s a seeeeequel!” As it turns out, the Bible is a trilogy and the Book of Mormon, to borrow a phrase, is The Return of the Jedi. The Book of Mormon he dug up was not only filled with religious insight but made of gold, crazy amazing right? I bet he wanted to show that puppy off, maybe get an eval at Cash Converters, but no, he was told to keep it a secret. He was to share its word but never show anyone. Major bummer. But soon this new testament caught on, he obviously appeared reasonably trustworthy because many were willing to take his word that the great book existed, and the Mormon faith began. The Mormons took their teachings from this new book as well, which had more people to remember with names like Nephi rather than John or Matthew. The Mormons didn't find it easy to go about their day having found a whole new religion in a time when people had already come to the conclusion it all began and ended with Jesus, so to avoid persecution in the east they set forth to find a new land, a safe haven in the USA. They trekked overland and as they came through a beautiful Utah valley they saw land perched beside a stunning, inland lake. Perfection. A quick check with the big man upstairs, and yes, this was where they were supposed to be. Destiny. Unbeknown to Brigham Young, his followers and perhaps Jesus/God himself, the lake was an inland sea, entirely salty. But they ran with it anyway. If you build it they will come, and they did, many just to enjoy the yearly combination of skiing and extreme heat but Salt Lake City (clever name) soon became the seat of the Mormon church and in the city centre today sits the great Mormon Temple, a fairy tale castle full of riches, frankincense and myrrh and with marshmallow couches. Well I'm speculating wildly, but you can’t prove me wrong because we will never know what’s inside because your everyday person/Mormon can’t go inside.

The Temple is both the heart and the geographical centre of the city, every street is measured from it and everything points towards it. The castle-like structure sits amongst other church buildings with nice gardens, trees and water features. The whole Temple area is a mix of Mormons and tourists, there are Mormon guides at every turn ready to answer any question you may have, divine or directional, they wear name tags with a flag of the languages they speak. They love sharing the word so there isn't a language they won’t be able to tell you about Jesus in. I am pretty sure they can get you a guide who speaks Welsh or Elvish if you give them a minute to activate a phone tree. It’s serene and pleasant, even the city around it is clean and tidy, shopping malls in big modern buildings with wide, landscaped streets full of friendly faces. I kept thinking maybe there was a wedding on, but they were just dressed nice because they are the kind of people every mum wants around. The type that don’t leave the house without running a comb through or wearing matching socks. Even the homeless people are well kept, and perhaps quite smart being in Salt Lake and living off the generosity of good old fashioned God fearing folk. Just write ‘God Bless’ with a Sharpie on the back of a Cornflakes box and you are in with a shot of at least a few dollars. There was one guy with a sign sitting outside the temple in Vans and shorts. He looked as homeless as my friends did Mormon in there shorty summer shorts.

Salt Lake City and the Temple Square area is filled with plaques honouring events you have never head of and statues of people no one else knows, it’s like a whole world you have never been privy to. Like a well-dressed secret society you are not invited to, well you are, but it’s been an inconvenient time because you are in the middle of dinner at 5pm. It’s seemingly perfect and clean cut, it’s almost sinister how unassuming it is.
I was hoping to find myself some sister wives but my time was limited but I did see a Mormon skateboarding, his tie flapping behind him which was a SLC highlight. I hope there is a reality show in the works for TLC about when Mormon’s rebel.

It was an entirely pleasant experience in downtown Salt Lake City although it made me feel like I should run a comb through my hair. The people were so nice, though I was too scared to make eye contact for too long in case they gave me a Mormon colouring book. One minute I’d be shading Jesus robes with three different browns for depth then next I’d be being dipped in an inflatable pool in Elder so and so’s backyard.


Posted by The Tipsy Gipsy 03:26 Archived in USA Tagged utah usa mormon salt_lake_city the_tipsy_gipsy Comments (0)

Born to Be Wild

The 2013 Sturgis Motorcycle Rally

On the list of my favourite things to see you can probably add, 'a biker eating a soft serve ice cream'. There is something ridiculously adorable about a burly, bearded man in leather, a denim cut-off vest and a bandana, licking a melting ice cream cone.

You might wonder why this has even come up, well it’s because I recently found myself taking part in the festivities of the 2013 73rd Annual Sturgis Rally. This merry event is when a whole bunch of motorcycle enthusiasts and bikies hit the road and congregate in a tiny South Dakota town to eat, drink, talk motorbikes and compare beards.

We were westbound from Chicago heading across the country via the wild west and the final frontier. We started to notice an unusual amount of bikers around us. After poking about and making some biker friends at various rest stops we found out the Sturgis Rally was under way and we should expect to see thousands and thousands more.

And we did.

It turns out bikers love leather, bikes AND the scenic natural wonders of South Dakota as much as you or I.

They were cruising through the Badlands with their mobile phones held up filming as they go, posing in assless leather chaps in front of Mount Rushmore, feeling connected to Native American culture at Crazy Horse and generally ruining the serenity of Custer State Park and the Black Hills with their loud Harley Davidson motors.

The amount of bikers is hard to describe. There were thousands on the road. The variety of bikers ranged from scary, tattooed folk, to older grey haired pony-tailed men to your everyday middle-aged couple in matching leather jackets. There was an exciting mix of leather to denim ratio happening on all. Fans of facial hair were in for a real treat, moustaches that flapped in the wind as they rode and beards so long they were plaited and finished with a bead. Some thought shirts were optional and were a fleshy mess of brownish red on wheels. Many had their ‘bitches’ on back who were usually wearing varying denim, rhinestones and leather combinations or were leathery middle-aged women who had favoured a simple studded bikini top.
It was a veritable treat for the eyes at every turn.

People had come to Sturgis from all over the country, and all over the world. I even met a father and son from Australia in Deadwood cemetery who had made the journey. It was a chat with some lovely Canadian bikers in the Badlands who gave us the run down on the place and really talked it up as a not-to-be-missed event.

It wasn't long before we were feeling like we were missing out on something.
It all seemed as if there was a lot of fun happening designed for very specific type of people.
How dare they not invite us?

As it turns out we were camping an hour from Sturgis so we decided the best idea would be for us to go and join in the nation’s largest biker rally. We were sick of missing out quite frankly.

I didn't have time to grow a beard so instead I wore my finest bandana - a silky orange and brown floral 70's design I picked up at a second hand store - and my meanest look.

Sturgis itself is a small town leftover from the Black Hills mining boom. It's population of 6,600 expands significantly, or perhaps they leave town and seek refuge with relatives while a reportedly 500,000 people descend on the small town each year in August. Houses in town rent out their yards to campers, there are bikers and motorcycles as far as the eye can see. There were motorbikes lining three blocks of the main street and the side streets all four rows deep. They were shiny, and big, and expensive looking, and I admit I know nothing about bikes but I understand they were great. They looked pricey and I hoped to hell I wouldn't knock one over and set off a domino chain of destruction and be forced to flee from half a million angry bikers. There were parties and Jack Daniel's sponsored tents. The shops lining the main street of Sturgis are leased out to more-to-the-theme stores, the local newspaper distributor had moved upstairs and was renting their shop front to a tattoo and piercing group from Arizona.

The town was abuzz with people and the sounds of engines being revved. Clearly neither I, nor the people I was with were bikers or could even pass as bikers, upon arrival. But badass was in the air and it was starting to affect the people around me.

I went to the newspaper slash tattoo store to accompany two friends to get piercings.

“What are we doing for you today” one tattooed biker said to me as I browsed the health inspection certificates while they were being punctured.

“Oh, nothing for me” I said.

“Why not?”

He seemed disappointed and I didn't want to offend him and his fine establishment of drop cloths to catch spilled blood and folders of photos of pierced faces. I'm sure people get just a little brow piercing out of politeness all the time.

”oh I can’t pull that off, I'm not badass like these two,’ I lament.

He asked if I was sure, I think he had some spare time to pierce a nipple or etch a quick dolphin jumping over a rainbow on to my lower back all I had to do was ask.

I mean, I didn't mark my body in any way nor did I let rhinestones come near me, but I did go a little cray while in Sturgis.

I did put three different types of barbecue sauce on my brisket sandwich.
Not kidding.
Of Sauce!
So yeah, I live my life on some kind of edge

We wandered up and down the streets people watching, trying to outdo each other with photos in our own competition to get biker bellies, scary
bikers and impressive facial hair snaps.

It turns out Jesus was also super in to bikes and the Christian motorcycle groups were everywhere. I got given a lot of cards along the lines of “heaven is nice, hell is hot, you are going to one whether you like it or not”. I looked savable which was nice as they blatantly gave up on others and wouldn't hand the person next to you a card or a free rag with a tag that says, “use this rag to wipe your hands, use god to wipe your sins”.

Within a few hours the ten people I was with had all transformed into bikers; there were piercings and tattoos, there was new shirts with rhinestones and skulls, there was skull caps with flames and leather jacket patches and studded belts and bandanas.
We really had to get out of there before someone mortgaged their house and bought a Harley.

We survived and were feeling pretty rock and roll, a little bat out of hell. Meatloafish perhaps is the adjective I'm after? We returned to the quiet of a camp ground in the Black Hills and I Googled Sturgis and read that over 400 people ended up in jail at the rally a few years ago, and there is about $250,000 worth of thefts that happen there annually.

And hundreds of soft serves get stuck in beards daily. Adorable.


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Making New Friends

The Joys of Hostels

“Can I bleach your hair?” she asks me.

“Ah, nah, I’m good,” I say with a forced, carefree attitude along the lines of I would, but not today.

“Please? I have some left over. What about some highlights?” she asks with wide eyes.

“Ah no thanks,” I say and continue brushing my teeth in the hostel bathroom.

It was my own fault. My own curiosity had gotten the better of me and I had to ask Blanche DuBois her story. I had to know why a middle-aged woman was whimpering herself to sleep at all hours of the day surrounded by bags of belongings.
A simple bag lady you may say. Keep your distance you may say.
It was the piles of new books scattered amongst her junk that piqued my curiosity, a drunk hobo doesn't typically read Macbeth, not in my experience anyway. Part of me was saying, do what you do best and remain anti-social but then a bigger part of me was saying, she appears homeless yet she is a fan of the bard with a beard, my god girl you need to know.

And that is how my friendship with Sunset Boulevard started. She was entirely neurotic, dramatic and as it turned out, she wasn't a drunk at all, she doesn't drink because she’s scared of irreparable liver damage and premature death, obviously. She had been in Chicago visiting someone and fell off a chair changing a light bulb and broken a finger and hurt her back, thus the groans and the whimpers.
So she wasn't a hobo, but I still wasn't sure what side of sanity she fell on, whether her apparent craziness was concussion, drama, or neurosis or perhaps a combination thereof. I think she was concussed and she was worried the same thing that happened to Miranda Richardson would happen to her. That she would have an aneurysm and die from a blow to the head. She meant Natasha by the way, I realised this when she started bumbling on about how lovely Liam Neeson is.

I have been wondering on this trip when I simply won’t be able to stay in a hostel any longer because I will be too old and bitter. I already rarely talk to people, I will move if you start playing beer pong near me and conversing loudly and I will aggressively unpack a full drying rack of dishes while muttering about the lousy youth of today, so it can’t be far off.
It is the cheap accommodation and the people watching that keeps me coming back. I'm not overly social and will go unnoticed by the frat party in the common area but I do tend to collect some hostel odd bods because I have one of those faces that’s comforting to crazy people; non-threatening and polite with a friendly ear for their life’s woes.

One of the main reasons I prefer conversing with these people is that the initial conversation doesn't involve obnoxious questions like, “so do you party?”

Instead I get someone say, “Do you have time? I don’t want to keep you. Please just let me tell you about the time I met Yoko Ono real quick”.

Well, yes I do, let me sit back down and get comfortable because I need to see how this one pans out.

Blanche DuBois was frail, manic depressive and a washed up actress (I'm not even kidding) it took a while to get her full story because there was some cray cray in there. She would tell me about raising her daughter in New York and using her ex-husband’s membership to get into the Guggenheim (because art galleries were their playground) but then in the next breath tell me she got hit by a car a few years ago and should be dead but she survived because she was wearing a knitted turtleneck and a puffy jacket.

She was misery personified. Her bleached hair stood straight out and she did her make-up with the heavy eye-liner and rouged cheeks of a washed up actress in a film.

We had chatted briefly then I ran into her in the bathroom. I caught her staring at me through the mirror as I cleaned my teeth. Her conclusion was that because I have blue eyes I must have been blonde as a child and she really wanted to bleach my hair in the hostel bathroom and I guess return me to my roots, literally.

I had to convince her that there is not an ounce of blondeness in my blood and that I would look terrible as a blonde.

I felt bad not letting her bleach my hair, I feel now, looking back it might have really made her day but at the time I really couldn't be certain that she wouldn't bleach my hair, then cut it all off and sew herself a wig so she could play the lead in Legally Blonde the musical.

But being the caring individual I am, I reached out a hand, and literally used it to help her fasten her brace on her broken finger.

Hostel friends really are one of a kind. It’s precisely this kind of experience that will keep me in hostels at least a little longer because only in a hostel will a stranger want to bleach your hair, or ask to borrow $30 after a long, day old friendship, or check in with nothing but a garbage bag of possessions, or give you their phone number scrawled on the back of their therapist's business card so you can discuss Australian travel tips.
Of course every now and then you meet wonderful people in a hostel and sandwiched between the middle-aged neurotic bunk buddies I did. But for the most part, for me a big part of the appeal of hostel living is the crazy people and the good stories that come from meeting them.

Why would I want to talk to my peers when I can talk Kadinsky, mental health and divorce with someone who was on stage and screen and was almost the face of Alaskan tourism? (It didn't pan out)

Posted by The Tipsy Gipsy 21:12 Archived in USA Tagged people hostels usa the_tipsy_gipsy Comments (2)

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